My sister gave birth just 2 months ago and died in a traffic accident while looking for a job. He was not adopted by his father (my family did not know who his father was), but now he is an orphan, and I loved him so I adopted him. Now he is 9 years old and has no idea that I am just his aunt.
For the past 9 years, I have cared for and loved my child as if I had given birth to it myself. I also had a few relationships, but when my boyfriends learned that I had an adopted daughter, they gradually grew cold and broke up. Some people even think that it is my biological child, I lied to save my reputation. I don’t care. Because I always make a condition that if I get married, I will bring my daughter with me. Anyone who truly loves me will accept my child.
It wasn’t until Huu came to me that he accepted me and loved me. Huu has a relative who lives near my house, so he knows about my sister, and he doesn’t suspect me like his previous boyfriends. We have been in love for more than a year and are also planning to get married. However, when I told my daughter about this, she objected strongly.
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I don’t know how to respond to my child’s words. (Illustration)
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She said she just wanted to live with me, just the two of her. If I’m afraid of loneliness, I agree to let me have a boyfriend, but I don’t want a man who will live with us both. I don’t want me to get married. When I’m old, my children will work to support me and not let me suffer. My son analyzed that now that I’m married to Uncle Huu, I have to take care of him and then give birth to his children. By that time, I’ll be tired and my health will be affected. Why do I need a man when I work and have money and have a daughter who will take care of me in the future? In the past, we lived just fine without a man in the house. If we needed to do heavy work, we would hire outsiders to help.
I don’t know how to respond to my child’s words. I’m still young and don’t understand the love between a man and a woman, so I feel like I’m trying to make me suffer. What you said is true, but in my position, I still want to get married and have more children.
My daughter has been angry with me for 2 days today. I don’t know how to convince my child anymore.