I could not have imagined that I would fall into such a pitiful situation as I am now. Married for 6 years, trusting your husband like that and then being hurt again. When I was proudest and happiest, I was also humiliated in insurmountable pain. Everyone said I had a happy family, a wonderful husband who always loved his wife and children, but no one knew that was just an appearance.
If I hadn’t seen it with my own eyes, I’m sure that whoever told me those things, I wouldn’t have believed them. I can’t believe it, my husband loves me every day, as romantically as when we first fell in love, how could he turn his back on me like that? My confidence collapsed, I could only blame myself for being so stupid, allowing my husband to be free all these days, no matter what he did or where he went, he never suspected anything.
It happened a week ago, but every time I close my eyes, I still can’t forget the feeling of pain and despair. That was the day I went to the mall to shop. While going to the supermarket, I looked through the fashion stores to see if there was anything beautiful and suitable for me. While wondering about so many options, I was stunned when the scene before my eyes was the appearance of my husband.
Always trusted her husband, never expected to be betrayed one day. Illustration
“He said he was very busy with work, so why is he here?” – I wondered briefly, but then soon returned to reality when from the dressing room, a young, beautiful, sexy girl walked out and hugged my husband. She turned around to let my husband take a closer look at the dress she was trying on, appearing very satisfied. My husband held her hand, hugged her and whispered something to her. My husband signaled the store employee to pay for the dress, and at the same time led the young girl to continue making more choices.
I felt like I was collapsed at the scene before my eyes, my husband and no one else was pampering his young lover. I intended to rush forward to make things happen, but if I did, my husband would deny it, even blaming me for being blindly jealous… So what I could do at that time was take my phone to film and take pictures of my husband. cuddling and pampering his lover.
Having the evidence in hand, I still don’t know what to do, because everything happened so quickly, beyond my imagination. I texted some close sisters to ask, some said I should fight jealousy, some said I should divorce to ease my mind… This made me even more confused and awkward.
After a few sleepless nights, thinking a lot, I had a frank talk with my husband. He did not hesitate to admit everything, but his attitude shocked me even more. My husband declared: “Now you have everything, what more do you want? Since you’re married and makes money and is handsome, you have to accept me as a woman. I also have my own life, you should Accept it or break up, it’s up to you.”
I don’t know what else to say after my husband’s words, I am deeply disappointed. That means my husband forced me to accept his affair, I had no right to participate, I was jealous… Perhaps he knew my weakness, did not dare to divorce because he loved his children and still loved his husband, so he Such confidence.
Now I am suffering to the point of despair, not knowing what to do because every wrong decision of both my husband and I makes our children suffer. Should I accept my husband’s adultery to slowly advise him, or should I divorce so I don’t have to endure more suffering? Please give me advice!